Well, once again it has been quite a long time since my last post. Today I wanted to address the readings from the mass. The first reading is 1 Jn 4:11-18, and one part in particular stood out for me.
God is love, and whoever remains in love remains in God and God in him.
In this is love brought to perfection among us,
that we have confidence on the day of judgment
because as he is, so are we in this world.
There is no fear in love,
but perfect love drives out fear
because fear has to do with punishment,
and so one who fears is not yet perfect in love.
Why is this so amazing to me? Well, first of all there is the beautiful Johanine language of “being in God,” which is just one of the simplest yet most profound ways of describing a life of grace. Furthermore, however, the author asserts a disparity between “love” and “fear.” God is of love, because “God is love.” Jesus came among us and brought this love to perfection by making the ultimate sacrifice of love, and showing God’s amazing love that continues to offer a share in the divine life to us who are overwhelmingly not worthy of such a mind-blowing honor.
There is however, “no fear in love.” Fear is conquered by love especially this “perfect love” because while “fear has to do with punishment,” God’s love ends punishment and reconciles those who have sinned. As a consequence of this, fear indicates imperfect love, a motivation to do God’s will that comes from love muddled with fear.

Think about any time you heard someone say that we must do God’s will, because if we do not we will go to hell. While there is truth in this statement, it is not a statement of truth in God’s perfection. We do God’s will because we love God! This is what God wants; this is why He offered us a share in His divine Life. He came to save and not to condemn. So, where does condemnation come from, and why should we not be afraid of it?
Condemnation comes from not being in the Father’s Love, though Jesus, the Son, in the Power of the Holy Spirit. Condemnation is not being in God. The emotion that most signifies this phenomenon is not fear, but rather anguish or despair. Not being in God, is in a profoundly real way, not having life. It is utter alienation from all that is real and worthy. We however worship He who is utterly real and worthy. We worship the God of perfect love, and thus, we have no reason to be afraid. Children are afraid of punishment, and this is necessary for children because it takes time to learn respect and love for others (even parents… and I suspect parents know this better than I). However, we are called to adult faith, faith that lives by love. So therefore, “Do not let your hearts be troubled” (John 14:1). The God of love has conquered fear as easily as when he walked upon and calmed the stormy sea. Live in God’s will because of the perfect love God is growing in your heart. In the words of God given us by the prophet Isaiah: “Fear not, I am with you; be not dismayed; I am your God” (Isaiah 41:10).

Matter is the stuff something is made of. For instance, bread is made of wheat and the chair is made of wood and fabric. Form is what makes the substance that particular substance. I know a chair when I see one, even if there are millions of chairs that all look different, each has the form of a chair. Another example is the human person. I know a human when I see one, even if all humans look different (different sizes, cosmetic differences, some are missing limbs, some have deformities, etc.) they are all humans; they all have a human form.

Many people see Christianity, especially Catholicism, as merely an exhaustive, and exhausting, list of rules and scare tactics. So many see the Cross as burden meant to crush us and keep us in our place. Nothing could be further than the truth. St. John the Evangelist speaks in today’s readings of the Cross as God’s healing hand. As once the bronze serpent healed all afflicted in the desert, the Cross was lifted up to heal all who look upon it and raise them up to new life.

God is The Father. This has been revealed to us throughout the ages through the Holy Spirit’s action among God’s people, and was revealed to us in the most definitive way by the Son, our Lord Jesus Christ, who taught us among so many other wonderful truths, to call God our Father. The most well-known prayer in Christianity is in fact the Lord’s Prayer, “The Our Father” to us Catholics. If we want to know how to be a Father, we must look to the Origin of Fatherhood, The Father himself, The First Person of the Trinity.
So, for family fathers, these roles have been given to them in their own way. Creation is obvious for biological fathers. How amazing is it that God allows men to have a hand in his role of creation, in making life? It’s nearly unbelievable. My brothers have participated with God and their wives in this amazing exercise four times now, and each time I am amazed, and can see an even more profound amazement on their face as they look at the children God entrusted to them. For fathers who are not biologically connected to their children, the creation of a family, a covenant of love and life, is just as amazing. This speaks to the second characteristic of fatherhood, the love for one’s people. A family is a participation in the covenant God has with his people. A father has to say yes to loving his children and his wife in the same constant, unwavering, completely forgiving manner that God says yes to us eternally. That is a very daunting task. This is especially so when a father has to help his children through something they do not understand or refuse to see in its full light. Teenagers struggling to find their identity are a good example. How does a father help their teen understand adulthood when they want to reject their parents as examples of adulthood and make their own way? God bless the fathers (and mothers) of every teenager!